A community
built on
respect.
"We don't trust algorithms with your safety.
We trust ourselves."
Every single person on Turtle has been vetted by a member of our founding team. We look for intentionality, authenticity, and a genuine desire for connection.
Why this is an ethical necessity in 2026 →Our Standards
Non-negotiable principles for a better dating experience.
Noharassment.
Zero tolerance for disrespect. We foster a space for kindness.
Nobots.
Every profile is manually verified by our team. No exceptions.
Norushing.
Slow dating means intentional conversations, not instant gratification.
The Turtle
Code.
We aren't here for the 'swipe-high.' We ask that you approach every profile with the same focus you'd give someone sitting across a dinner table from you.
The 12-hour cooldown is a feature, not a bug. Respect the silence. Use the time to breathe, reflect, and prepare for a real conversation.
Profiles on Turtle are about people, not highlight reels. We encourage honesty and vulnerability. Any form of 'performance' or deceptive behavior is cause for removal.
Harassment, unsolicited explicit content, or aggressive 'hookup' behavior will result in an immediate and permanent ban. Our human team reviews every report.
The Road
to Community.
Profile Creation
You share your story, your intentions, and your favorite turtle fact.
Manual Team Review
A real human from our team reviews every word and photo.
Community Entry
Once verified, you're welcomed into the slow dating world.